Many Intended Parents ask our team about recommended gifts for their surrogate through the process. While there is NO obligation, we compiled a list of ideas & even asked some of current surrogates on any gifts they may have received.

It’s heartwarming to see your consideration and care for your gestational surrogate during this journey. Finding the perfect gift to show appreciation and support can indeed strengthen your relationship and convey your gratitude.

Here’s a breakdown of gift ideas categorized for different stages and occasions:

Comfort and Pampering:

1. Pregnancy Massage: A relaxing way to ease any discomfort.
2. Pedicure or Spa Treatments: A pampering session she may appreciate.
3. Books or Magazines: Good entertainment for leisure time.
4. Lotions, Candles, or Scented Items: Ensure they are hypoallergenic or unscented.
5. Gift Cards for Books or Movies: A thoughtful gesture for her leisure.
6. Comfortable Sleepwear: An oversized tee or comfy pajamas.
7. Soft Pashmina or Scarf: A cozy addition to her wardrobe.
8. Pregnancy Journal: A way for her to document her experiences.

Transfer Day Gifts:

1. Cards or Postcards: Simple but thoughtful.
2. Flowers or Fruit Baskets: A sweet gesture for special days.
3. Gift Card to Favorite Restaurant: Treat her to a meal out.

Gratitude After Birth:

1. Jewelry with Baby’s Birthstone: A meaningful keepsake.
2. Handmade or Custom Items: Personalized gifts from Etsy.
3. Gift Cards to Non-Maternity Stores: Let her treat herself.
4. Designer Handbag or Special Treat: Something she wouldn’t buy for herself.
5. Weekend Away: A chance for her to relax and reconnect.
6. Sentimental Items: Jewelry or art items related to surrogacy.
7. Handmade Items: Personalized gifts for a special touch

Holidays or Special Times:

1. Photos: Share progress on the nursery or your lives.
2. Pregnancy Photoshoot: Capture beautiful memories.
3. Pregnancy Massage or Spa Treatments: To acknowledge her efforts.
4. Healthy Snack Basket: A thoughtful surprise for her.
5. Cleaning Service: Assistance for her family responsibilities.
6. Gifts for Surrogate’s Children: To acknowledge their support.
7. Framed Photos or Pregnancy Journal: Keeping IPs involved and updated.

 

We asked our current GCs about gifts they received; this is what they said.